Have you ever asked a question to yourself that what is more important in a person looks or confidence?

Imagine two people coming towards you, one is exceptionally beautiful and attractive, a person with whom you cannot resist talking to but as soon as you initiate the conversation, you realize the person is too shy and uncomfortable.

On the other hand, a person with average looks walks towards you but is confident to initiate the conversation with you and in just a matter of time makes you feel comfortable and makes you laugh. Although looking at him/her is still a struggle.

With whom would you continue your conversation?



Well according to me confidence is more important though it is not the sole reason for success. But a confident person can make a party groove on his tunes and which can lead to a certain amount of success because confidence includes a person public speaking the way he put things in front of others.

Another reason why a confident person last longer in the race is the way he play with words because of the energy in his speech perfect way to convince people to listen to him.

Confidence relaxes people, it helps people to connect with you more easily. A confident person gives more importance to others while in a conversation.

Confidence is kind of contagious, it makes you feel wanted among people as others really want to be around. It is kind of magnetic.

Another fact is that confidence also makes you attractive as people around you give you the right kind of attention by getting in your conversation.


On the other hand looks can help you make that first impression on a person but as soon as you speak the absence of confidence will make a person loose interest in you and your ideas.

Looks is a physical attribute which can be achieved by wearing good clothes perfect makeup that makes you look attractive on the outside and people would want to initiate the conversation and listen to your ideas but it will be of no use if you are lacking in confidence to talk to others it will make them looks the interest in you.

Even after this, the art of charm is not to pretend that looks aren’t important specially for dating of course they are.


The perfect way is to blend both confidence and looks.

It’s like if you look good you feel confident and if you are confident in what you wear you most certainly look good but in the most important lesson is that we should always look good in what we wear how we wear and whatever is the situation we should always feel good about ourselves.

“Dress up for yourself not others”.

This should be the motto while blending yourself when you look in the mirror you should have clothes and make up on your body and confidence on your face. This is how it works it’s a perfect blend to survive in the world of looks and confidence.

Until next time!!!!

Be confident and look good






An avid reader and writer, traveller,  loves to bake, foodie and fashion enthusiast.

Written by

Kishita Gandhi

An avid reader and writer, traveller,  loves to bake, foodie and fashion enthusiast.