The more I ponder about life the more I come to one solid realization: the biggest curse is forgetfulness. Like we plan something and we end up doing something else but in certain cases its boon too , forgetting the past bitterness, failures help us move ahead.

Here you will say, it’s general phenomena or obvious. I agree, and correlate with the proverb “shoot for moon even if you miss you will land among the stars”

BUT why star..?? When we can get Moon..!! What we need is extra efforts and forgiveness which will lead us to Moon…

Believe me.. There are some rigorous efforts we need to be able to reach the desired destination.

Destination can be near or far but it is the result of collective efforts reinforced by social and cultural means. Mainly by being traced into a reality of unconscious consumerism, inauthentic lifestyle and materialist mindset.

The brighter side of it is, we all have the chance to remember and reconnect to ourselves. The power of remembering is at the center of the path to self discovery and realization.

Let’s forget what we have gone through, like I said earlier in some cases its boon too to forget, work on our present place and take the responsibility of our future to give/gift ourselves a reward of satisfactory beautiful life and welcome each day with new opportunity knocking at our door.

.Here is the list of what I believe we should do or remember….


  Connect with natural world– yeah, you heard me right. Natural world. Let’s come out of the fancy world and follow natural path. Where there is no self exploitation, no self absorbed madness. Let’s work on reality and believe in it, more over believe in ourselves

We seldom forget our path and our dream– staying on our goals takes a lot of positive and reluctant efforts. It needs your inner self and determination to give the power to weave dreams. Use your intention to direct those dreams into reality.

Purpose– with too much chatter, noise and distraction in this dense reality. We forget how far we have come. We get into mass conversations and try other means and ways. Here I will suggest you, listen to all but do what you meant to do or what is right for you. What your purpose is. Stick on to what you want. It should justify your efforts.

Love is everything– love in today’s world is perhaps the deepest mystery of all. Truth, however  hidden somewhere deep inside of us. We know what we want and what all efforts we are making. Ultimately our efforts, our passion, our dedication will give us the end result. So love what you do.. who you should be your own favorite buddy.

Forget, Forgive, Free–  if there is something that history has taught us, it is how fast we are at forgetting our own lessons. Time and Time again we keep on repeating the same mistakes, stuck in the same patterns of greed and self destruction. We cannot be blamed individually for the mistakes done but we are responsible as individual to remind ourselves of past mistakes. Forgive ourselves and involvement elsewhere. It’s the time to take suitable decision for our dreams and desire goals.

Truth, Believe and wonder– In this world we forget to find wonders in the miracle of life. The cynical view of the world has made us lose truth and believe in ourselves. This is perhaps the biggest tragedy of all. It has weakened our spirit and improvised our soul. Yet our determination and positive attitude towards life will help us do wonders and create magic. Keep sailing because stagnant water stinks. Be a PHOENIX.

Be simple– life has got more complex and complicated. We are seduced by the glitter of more not by the power of less. We forget to be simple and simplicity. Wherein life is simple. It is us who complicate by visualizing either way to less or way to more. So let’s subtract in essential clutter and add the purpose to a meaningful beautiful life.

Let’s bring a revolutionary change in thought process for better future. Have the guts to accept challenges with positivity or something new or even challenging in it to get better results, productive results and satisfactory life. Forget what is not happening instead of what’s happening and what more we can do. This process of achievement will surly asks you to forgive a lot many things. Which is better for you any which ways. I am sure it is difficult for you sometimes but not impossible. Forget.. Forgive & Move ahead. Don’t let things hold you and haunt you. Life is BEAUTIFUL…

Easy going, a good listener, loves to travel, foodie and pokemon fan….

Madhuri Satija

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Madhuri Satija

Easy going, a good listener, loves to travel, foodie and pokemon fan....